Well my friend, my drow hasn't done any of the dirty surfacer quests. He is currently banned from Cordor... by name... and that ain't easy to do considering even Lolthites are allowed in Cordor now.
Needless to say his reception has been less than amiable on the surface and since he got banned from the drow city... well pariah would be a good descriptor. And honestly, I don't make it easy for folks to like him since he's... drow. (condescending, elitist and all around bastard - which works ok in a drow city, not so much elsewhere). I can count the times things went to PVP on one hand in over 2 years due to the great RPers in Amia.
So, what did I do with all this hate for my poor misunderstood drow? RP'd! I can tell you that the Amia RP'ers will not disappoint you. I hope you don't view your character as having a handicap because they are gnollish and savage. It's actually going to make it amazing for you. Sure you'll have to work extra hard to gain any kind of trust from the locals. You'll be called names, chased off, threatened etc. And you know what that is? RP!